These are the men. They are strong. They are awesome. They have said yes to standing with us on our wedding day and for the rest of our lives.

We believe in their integrity, their value systems, and simply put... we trust these folks with our lives, literally.

Jeremy Nolan: Best Man & brother

I met Wink in the Hospital after delivery and we had a lengthy conversation about what we would do with the rest of our lives.  I first saw the Lovely Maggie Hoffman in church, and later met her at the house when she visited Wink.  I remember thinking they looked very good together and being very happy for     Wink.

I’m very proud of my brother in many ways. As for Maggie, she has such a positive affect on him and I’m grateful for that.   

I’m looking forward to the wedding being over and the two of you being together with nothing to focus on but each other.    

I’m confident Wink will pick a good honeymoon spot.

Josh Nicodemus: Groomsman & friend

I met wink in kindergarten, and we haven't left each other alone since. We went to school together until 5th grade, played sports together, hung out, had fun together and made fun of each other and got on each others nerves. We went on vacations with each others families, ask each other for advice and pray for one another. Even though we don't talk as much anymore.... Maggie... Haha jk, I still call him my best friend. I met Maggie at one of winks annual thanksgiving paintball games. I was super psyched that he had met what seemed to be a down to earth, fun, and godly woman. She's out of your league bro ;). My first impression was confirmed since then and there's no one more perfect for my best friend. So happy for both of you! What I love best about Patrick and Maggie is their determination to follow Christ first, and make plans for themselves tailored around His will. Wink treats her like a princess and she gives him all the love he deserves. 

I own a home remodeling business which keeps me crazy busy. I get to come home to my beautiful wife and 3 kids, and I play a little guitar now and then if I can find the time. Tangible things that I love include coffee and cigars, I'm not picky, if its unhealthy I probably love it. 

Where should Patrick and Maggie go for their Honeymoon: They should honeymoon in Florida, nice beachfront places but budget friendly.

Derek Yake: Groomsman & friend

Wink and I met as roommates at UMBC (he transferred after a couple of years at College Park). There were four of us crammed into a dorm-room at end of the hall and we were very fortunate to have Wink as a roommate. He had something in common with all of us. For me it was our taste in music and competitive, yet unflappable personalities. Shortly after college, I moved to Denver and have tried my best to stay in contact. In March I finally met Maggie when her and Wink came to snowboard in Colorado.

Even after only a few days, I can say with confidence that Maggie has a fantastic sense of humor and cares deeply about her friends and family. Wink is probably the best man I know and I'm willing to bet I'm not the only one who feels that way. They're very lucky to have found each other.  I am looking to seeing Wink cry. Weep! Weep! Weep!

Where should Patrick and Maggie go for their Honeymoon: Vail. Or a yacht in Belize. Or Gabuukistan. Or spelunking in New Zealand. Can't go wrong with any of those.

 

Zach Hoffman: Groomsman & brother-in-law

Well, I met Maggie because she is my sister so that's a given. The first time i met Patrick was hanging out snowboarding a few years ago. Maggie, Patrick and I along with our snowboards crammed into his small Volvo and headed north for a snowboarding trip. Never have i ever seen a man fly down the slopes as fast and as mad-looking as Patrick. Honestly I was worried. What i love most about Patrick is that he always listens, and he always uses his big heart to communicate to others. What I love about Maggie is the fun memories we share and the fact that she is always up for an adventure.  What I am looking forward to most about Maggie and Patrick's wedding is that I can walk my own wife down the isle, and it will be the third Hoffman wedding in one year, in the first year of Hoffman weddings!  I love guns, Xbox, Camo, hammocks, fishing polls, snow, SUV's, the Bible, good set of sunglasses w/ no scratches! And a bottle of Rum!  

Where should Patrick and Maggie go for their Honeymoon: They should go boarding in the Rockies. 

 

Sam Hoffman: Groomsman & brother-in-law

Maggie is one of my older sisters. I'm the youngest of the 6 Hoffman kids and love it. Actually this year, I don't. 3 of my siblings are getting married. I guess that means I will be really spoiled once 2 of them move out of the house. But really... I love Maggie. She's the best. And Patrick, he's really cool. I like that he likes Zombies, Walking Dead, and anything that has to do with Ironman and the Avengers I'm gonna miss Maggie not living at the house, but I really know Patrick loves Maggie and will take good care of her. I am looking forward to teaming up with Josh and causing a scene at the wedding. I'm also really excited about dancing. I love to dance and have fun... AND all my friends are gonna be there (right Maggie?), so it's gonna be a really good time.

Gilbert Werner: Groomsman & friend

"Wow, how i know Patrick and Maggie... do you have a couple hours? Patrick is my god brother and I have known him his whole life. He is the little brother I never had well, now he is the little big brother I remember when I was the biggest and tallest. Now I am the shortest of them all. I have to say for some time I lost touch with Patrick because of life. He was 17 and just finishing high school. We were at the beach where both our families would go every year together. Patrick is the best friend anyone could ask for. He gives with a kind heart and as a great man of God, he has been there when no one else was. Maggie I have known for many years. She went to Trinity and her whole family is awesome. She is a great woman of God and is perfect for Patrick. He deserves the best and he has it with Maggie. I love you both and hope the lord blesses the both of you with a big family. 

What I love about Patrick is no matter how stressed he is, he remains calm. He will do anything in the world for you. He taught me how to snowboard by taking me to the intermediate slope and said "this is the bunny hill" lol. That was a painfully fun day. Patrick is fun to be with and competitive. He is not a sore loser and well organized and self assertive. Maggie is Patrick's better half, the softer side to make him less ridged and less serious in certain aspects. They both are like peas in a pod. 

Well, this is a PG writing so I can't say what I think Patrick is looking forward to most... just kidding. I look forward to food and dancing and enjoying the time with great people and happiness. It is a time to see how the lord can bless to people with love and mercy and you can't forget the cake. 

I love the sound of techno and remix music to get your blood pumping. Let the night be set afire with good music and dancing. I love walks on the beach and romantic dinner and chick flicks... hold on, I am just kidding there... i love sports (just don't tell Patrick that baseball is not my favorite sport... is every one going to read? this oh well)... I love soccer and snowboarding good music. Patrick knows what i like... my favorite color is blue and black they make purple but purple is not my favorite color.

I am sorry to inform every one that I do not have any unique hobbies, just love staying young. I always feel like i am 18, but don't tell my body it is 35 going on 36. I want to marry mmmmm right now is not the time for me to be married... the spot light is on Wink and his beautiful bride = examples of what happiness looks like. 

I think patrick should take you snowboarding in the mountains or for paint balling (hold on i am just kidding) but I do think somewhere in the mountains where you both can be secluded and all the time to yourselves where is such a place.  I have no idea, but Patrick will figure that one out he is good at solving problems.

John Michael: Groomsman & cousin

Although Patrick and I are cousins, he is more like an older brother to me. We've been close as long as I can remember and he is one of my role models. We've always shared a love of baseball and sports. I have many memories of snowboarding trips, paintball on thanksgiving and being together every christmas late into the night telling stories and sharing time. 

I met Maggie two years ago at my family's annual Fourth of July party. I have gotten to know her for the kind spirited and happy person that she is. She and Patrick are a great match and I wish them all of the best in their marriage.  As a nearly married man myself, Im happy to once again be sharing a phase of my life with Patrick. Here's to figuring out this husband thing together! 

My 9-5 life is consumed with servicing wells and water treatment systems. In my down time; I've recently bought a house and am remodeling it top to bottom while still helping plan my own wedding a few weeks before Patrick and Maggie's. No matter how busy our lives become, he will always be one of my favorite cousins and best friends.

Scott Kreiger: Groomsman & teammate

Wink and I have known each other since we were both 12 years old.  We have played on countless baseball teams together: Maryland Orioles, Team Toyota, Fowble Baseball, Calvert Hall, Youse’s Orioles.  I could have missed a few.  We both went to Calvert Hall high school where I share some of my best baseball memories with Wink.  I was there the day Wink broke his ankle causing him to miss his senior year of baseball.  I learned a lot about Wink through his injury.  He showed he was a great teammate and how resilient he could be. 

 

His faith helped him through his recovery and what a hard recovery it was. It never stopped him from loving the game and he continues to chase his dream today.   Wink and I have recently worked together giving hitting lessons to kids, for the last 2 years.  He works so well with the kids and has a passion for baseball that is undeniable. Wink is someone I am proud to call a true friend.  I can sit here and say I know Wink would do anything for me.  It’s hard to find a friend that you can honestly say that about.  He is a great person and I am very happy for him in his new future with Maggie.

Matt Libous: Groomsman & brother-in-law

When did I meet Wink? Hmmm.. Hard to say.. I met Patrick for the first time at family thanksgiving.. Or camping.. Or maybe it was at his engagement party? Not sure; all events with the Hoffman run together because it's one party after the next. I just married Maggie's sister Katie Hoffman, now Libous, in June.

I love Patrick & Maggie. They dream big. They are committed to Jesus & to each other. With Him at the center they'll flourish no matter what they do together & no matter what they may face. 

I'm most looking forward to watching my hot wife (the Matron of Honor) walk down the aisle again and dancing with her... I mean... Seeing Wink when he spots his bride for the first time!!!

Things that I love and other stuff about myself? Well.. I get to spend my life with Kate. She's pretty much a dream come true. I love chai tea, cookies, and sports.